It never fails.
You’re running errands and your stomach grumbles, lets loose a little gas, and you know it’s time to a bathroom.
“What do I do with my concealed carry gun?”
Unless you’re one of those people who can only perform certain…um…“functions” in your own house, this is a situation you’ll have to deal with sooner or later.
Sure, you can leave it (the gun) in the car, but what if someone tries something when you literally have your pants down?
Before you encounter this situation, let’s talk about how to use the bathroom when you’re carrying concealed.
Choosing Your Pitstop Location
You know what they say…”location, location, location.”
This even applies to using the bathroom.
Knowing what stores, gas stations, restaurants, and other public places have good bathrooms helps more than you think.
Bear with me.
When it comes to bathrooms, there are things you will want to look for aside from cleanliness. If it’s not an emergency and you have some options to choose from, there are some better options than others when it comes to bathrooms.
For starters, if you can find a bathroom that’s meant to be used one person at a time, this is your best option.
You can get in and out without having to worry about anyone seeing your gun.
If you are in a larger big box store, you can look for the family bathrooms.
A lot of times they in a different location than the men’s and women’s bathrooms, so try the back of the store or ask.
The reason for using the family bathroom is so it doesn’t have five stalls.
Some gas stations have outside bathrooms where you can also be alone, not worrying if someone will catch a glimpse of what’s in your pants.
If you need to use a stall where there might me a person next to you, try to get the stall at the end by the wall. It will help because there are fewer angles for someone to see your weapon.
When You Find A Place
When you find a location to do your business, it’s time for the real effort to start.
It might seem like it’s a simple thing and you do it daily, but carrying a gun changes how you pull your pants up and down.
When you need to be less obvious about what’s attached to your belt, you’ll need to pay attention when you drop your drawers.
Aside from the extra weight, you will need to pay attention to the direction of the barrel, how much you can see under the stall wall, and what to do when you pull your pants up.
Your carry holster should have good retention, so you shouldn’t have to worry about your gun falling out, even if it flips upside down.
You should be able to hold your holster upside down with the gun (unloaded for this test) or magazine in it and shake it without the gun or magazine falling out.
Many of us also have a carrier for an additional magazine or two. While it’s great to have if something goes down and you need a reload, they get in the way during everyday activities.
Knowing that your gun won’t fall out of the holster can stop some of the pants dropping gymnastics you may have thought you’d have to do.
Simply unbuckling your belt but keeping tension on the belt will help it from going limp (the belt). Now that you have control of the loose weapon, you can lower your pants while guiding your holster where you want it to lay.
Where your holster and gun lay is a judgement call based on the bathroom you’re in and the stall wall height.
If you are a right hand draw and you’re in the first stall with the bathroom entrance door to your right, you may have to cover your weapon or lay it more inside your pants if the stall wall is far up off the floor.
Positioning Your Gun When Seated
Positioning your gun, no matter where you are is important; remember the 4 rules of gun safety?
However, it’s really important when you are sitting with your gun loosely between your legs resting in your pants. You want to make sure you aren’t pointing it in a direction that could harm someone in the case of an accidental discharge, including yourself.
So don’t do this…
The layout of a bathroom stall leaves few options for this. If you can access the “corner office” you can point it at the wall if it’s not a flimsy drywall and 2×4 wall, because that wouldn’t stop much.
The other alternative is to point it back at the toilet base.
While it would suck to have to replace a toilet, there is less chance of danger pointing it back at the toilet than other directions in this case. And this should go without saying but I’ll mention it anyway, don’t point the gun up at you. Down and away from you is always better.
Also, don’t play with your gun while you’re on the throne. Nothing good can come from it, if you’re bored, play on your phone like the rest of the population, or God forbid… read something.
What If It Falls Out
If your weapon falls out of your holster while you’re pulling your pants up or down, first of all, don’t panic. Pick it up and holster it. Don’t make a big deal of it. Your gun should not discharge from being dropped.
And check out our Best Holsters for Any Way You Carry since the one you used probably wasn’t great.
Your holster should be snug and not let your gun loose unless you want it to come out. Kydex can lose retention; it shouldn’t, but it can. If that’s the case, you can usually fix the retention problem pretty easily.
What Should I Do If There Is a Accidental Discharge?
First thing is, it’s probably good you’re in a bathroom, because it will probably scare the crap out of you. So, after you wipe, you’ll need to own up to the accident.
The first thing is to secure your weapon.
It would be a good idea to take the mag out and remove the round in the chamber too just to be safe.
Don’t flee the scene.
This will look bad and probably break a law making things much worse. The laws vary from state to state, but you could be in it for a felony if you flee.
Make sure no one is injured.
Even though it was unintentional, it’s your gun and bullet, so it’s your responsibility regardless of intent.
But that’s what the lawyer may use to describe your action, especially if you are in a gun hating area of the country. I’m not a lawyer, so check your local laws so you know for yourself. *Update* Some more insight in the comments.
Of course, most of this is common sense, but to those of you new to concealed carrying you may not think about the simple things you do (or need to do) until it happens.
There’s my 7 Things I Wish I Knew Before Concealed Carrying article to help you out too.
Hopefully this gives you an idea about what could happen and how to avoid the pitfalls of using the bathroom while concealed carrying. There is a bit more to take into consideration than just dropping your drawers and sitting down.
Have you had any AH-HA moments when you’ve tried to use the bathroom while carrying? Maybe an accidental discharge of your weapon or having a stall-mate catch a glimpse of what you’re packin… in your holster.
Let us know how you handled the situation.